Random Thoughts

It seems like a silly question. It’s not like we can make ourselves invisible, right? Actually, most of us do hide in plain sight almost every day. People see us, but they don’t see US. Meaning who we are, our actual core and being. Let me explain… I believe in energy. The energy of all […]

I’ve been privy to several conversations regarding dating and putting a value on prospects, along with a lot of people talking about such things on social media, podcasts, etc. One of the more recent popular terms is a “high value” person. I enjoy these conversations, as they give me insight into others’ perspectives and I […]

I found myself being upset that so-called friends and even family didn’t really know me. I mean the parts of me beyond the surface that anyone who paid attention for twenty minutes could figure out. I realized that most of the people in my life had an idea of who I am as far as […]

Since I started this journey a couple of years ago, I have shared 100 blog posts as of today! That’s an accomplishment in a way, though I’m not even sure y’all care. Do you? If you do enjoy the posts, which ones are your favorites? What do you want to read more about? The whole […]

What makes (some) guys think it’s cool, cute, funny, or acceptable to send a girl an unsolicited d!ck pic? I’m not talking about the girl you’ve been dating, sleeping with, or your significant other. I’m talking about a girl you hardly know. The vast majority of women do not get turned on by that. (Some […]

I have this theory, motto, or whatever you want to call it. You may have seen me write about it before. I don’t think we are supposed to chase anything. I mean ANYTHING. Not money, dreams, people, love, jobs, etc. I don’t mean just sit on your ass and DO nothing, either. But instead of […]

I suppose some of y’all actually click the “read more” and read my blog (LOL)…because I got a special request from a friend to explore what selfishness looks like to me. Especially when discussing a relationship. Honestly, I think the word selfish is highly overused. I think we throw that word around when others have […]

I used to feel guilty when I treated myself to special things, like cute socks, clothes, shoes, a night out, or whatever. Especially when it cost money and I knew I had the responsibility of providing for my children. As I matured, did some self-work, and started really thinking about life from different perspectives, I […]